Starr was born in Memphis Tennessee. He was the second son of Minnie Edna Gruner
Frye and John L. Frye. Starr was raised by his grandmother, Effie Nunely, Rowe
For many years now a number of us in the family, myself included, have
wondered what happened to Starr during his tour in Vietnam. All I knew
was that he was killed, but not by enemy fire. I did not understand this
and wondered often over the years. It was not by friendly fire either,
which made it somewhat confusing. What he did was never discussed, nor
mentioned which made it even more perplexing. Now, many questions are
answered for me, and I hope for those of you whom wanted to know.
The entire story may never be known, but for now, we do know more.
Recently this was received from a friend of Starr's whom knew
and worked with him during the Vietnam war. I have put this email up
for our family to read and appreciate what these courageous young men
were doing for this country and their families.
Here is the story of what happened to our beloved Starr and of others
whom also cared about him. Starr was just 24 when we lost him.
May God rest their souls.
My name is Ray and my wife and I live in West Palm Beach Florida.
I am a retired Major with the Florida Highway Patrol. Starr was a
friend of mine and I was with him the night before his death at our
units informal Christmas Party. Starr was crew chief/door gunner for
our chopper. Our unit was the 1st Bn Provincial, of the 525th Military
Counterintelligence Group headquartered in Danang, Vn. Our unit was
highly classified and operated under several cover names at various times,
40th Commo, and 317th Signal. We operated south Vietnamese intelligence
operatives from ChuLai to Quang Tri. Starr's chopper piloted by another
friend Fred Williams transported these agents for us. The chopper was
on a mission south of Danang with Intel ops onboard and one of our ops,
David Gilmor, another good friend, when it went down. Starr and Fred
were on the same side of the aircraft when it hit. Upon impact it burst
into flames. Fred and starr were trapped, along with the SO. The Viet. ops.
David, the copilot and the other door gunner were able to get out.
David went back into the flames in an effort to save Starr, Fred and
the Intel. ops. He was overcome by the flames and was killed also.
The copilot and door gunner survived. I have kept in touch with David's
father over the years.I have thought of Starr many times over the years.
He was a good man and soldier. He gave his life in the most honorable
way and I for one have never forgotten him and his friendship.
My wife and I went back to Vietnam in May of 2000 to pay tribute to
Starr, David and Fred. Please pass this information on to your family
and give my warmest regards. If I can answer any questions feel free to
contact me.
Sincerely,
Ray
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Another letter was received from Ray and it follows:
Thank you for the response to my e-mail. It was very nice of you to
share some of your family history and invite me to view your web page,
and share my thoughts about Starr. You surely have my permission to
use my thoughts about Starr.
I have some random thoughts and memories of Starr I'll share:
The night before his death we had an informal Christmas party.
More of a casual gathering with some luke warm beer and cookies
from home. Fred had made friends with some USO entertainers flying
in and out of Marble Mountain and had invited them to come over to
our compound that night. They did and to our surprise put on a mini
show for us. This was special because we were isolated in a compound
in downtown Danang and didn't get to many of the USO shows in the
area. Everyone had a good time, however, Starr and the chopper crew
left early, about 9:00PM because of the early morning mission.
Starr was very dedicated to his chopper. It was his baby and he
loved it. Many a night I saw Starr cleaning the M-60 machine guns
late at night. He would always say that he had to keep those babies
clean because you never know when your going to them.
Starr had an infectious smile. Nothing ever bothered him. On one
trip from Quang Tri to Danang, about 100 miles, it was raining so
hard the pilot could not see and was flying about 5 feet above
the waves of the ocean along the coast so he wouldn't get lost.
I really didn't think we would make it. Starr looked over at me
and just said "we'll be OK."
Just a side note, Starr's chopper went by the call sign
of "Moonshine One."
As I remember things I"ll try to pass them on.
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My gratitude to Ray for his willingness to share his memories of
Vietnam and Starr with us. I am deeply grateful to him for this
and am anxious to hear from him again.
Many of our young men and women died in Vietnam. Most every family in
this Country suffered a loss of one kind or another during this war.
So let us honor our Vets as they deserve so well and include them in our
prayers. Our Starr may be gone from our lives today, but he will remain
in the hearts of many of us forever.
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Starr is also listed on the Virtual wall, should anyone wish to go
visit him there and leave a memorial for him. The online address is
http://thevirtualwall.org"
Music playing "You'll never walk alone"
Dedicated to Starr.
We now have a few pictures to share with you. These were furnished
to us by Ray, whom we are greatly indebted to for giving so much
to our family about Starr and his experiences in Vietnam.
Thank you again, Ray, and God Bless you.
(Please be patient for the page to download as it is graphic intense)
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Starr Frye
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